My friend has it its a grey off the shoulder long sleeve shirt that says HOPE on the front and other designs.... i really like it and idk what its called or where to get it� I would settle for a plain one as long as it is off the shoulder

Alloy has some pretty cute ones http://store.alloy.com/item.do http://store.alloy.com/item.do http://store.alloy.com/item.do http://store.alloy.com/item.do

If it is your friend who got the shirt first, ask her where she got it first, I am sure she knows where she bought her own shirt!  I was not able to find a shirt matching that description, so I will just give you some ideas of off the shoulder tops.  Victoria's Secret has a nice off the shoulder top selling for $39.50
specifics:
Our softest, slinkiest top in super comfy modal. Dolman sleeves. Imported.


Bergdorf Goodman has a Juicy Couture Off the Shoulder Sequined top selling for $52.00
specifics:

• Black with silver-sequined white "Juicy" and scroll print on chest.
• Off-the shoulder neckline.
• Kangaroo pocket.
• Short raglan sleeves.
• Supima® cotton.
• Made in USA of imported material.

I will add a few more options to look over!