I've been searching for a small black contact manager book similar to what guys use for their "Girls" any idea where I can find one?

You can find a small black address book at Amazon selling for $8.99!
specifics:
This pocket-sized book is a stylish place to stash your most important addresses and pertinent details. A timeless classic. 160 pages; 4-1/4'' wide x 5-3/4'' high; concealed wire-o binding; book lies flat for ease of use; elastic band place holder.

There is also a pink version that also sells for $8.99 as well
specifics:
The perfect book in which to record important addresses and noteworthy details. Elegance meets flair in this new twist on a timeless classic. 160 pages; 4-1/4'' wide x 5-3/4'' high; concealed wire-o binding; book lies flat for ease of use; elastic band place holder.

There is a green organizer contact book selling for $4.99
specifics:
This handy little 5 1/2" x 4" book has two separate sections. The first half is the E-Mail Addresses section and has places for Name, Office and Home / Other Addresses. In the Passwords section there are plenty of places for Names, Web Addresses, Login or User Names, Passwords and PIN #. In addition, there is space for notes and creative Tips at the beginning of both sections, which are alphabetized. This saddle stitched book has a NEW COVER and may not be reflected in the image shown!