I'm looking for a game for xbox 360 that is like hand 2 hand combat like lord of the rings... any suggestions?

Hi there.  I can recommend some great games for your XBOX 360.  Let's take a look at some, okay?

Fable II-  Picks up after the first Fable.  This has a wide-ranging open-ended gameplay.  Players can assume if they want to be a boy or a girl.  You will have short range, long range and magic attacks in combat.  You will earn your currency that can be used in the game.  You will be allowed to bring players into your world.

Dead to Rights: Retribution- In this game there is two playable characters.  It has satisfyingly brutal disarms and takedowns.  Also has fluid combat system.  You will have intense hand to hand combat.  Fast paced gunplay also.  There is a great storyline.  Perfect game for you!

The Bourne Conspiracy- This game you will be Jason Bourne.  You will be in action with hand to hand combat, shooting and dramatic escapes.  Deadly attacks and multi-opponent takedowns.  Brand new story developed by the Bourne trilogy screenwriter.  There will be aggressive cinematic presentation.  

How about the upcoming Mafia II? In this game you will have action-packed gameply.  You will take part in heart stopping gunfights, white knuckled hand to hand combat and lots of gunplay.  Authentic characterization, this has a mature storyline.  It will make you understand the pull and impossible escape of Mob life. 

Last one I recommend is Conan.  Playing as Conan you will be fighting a variety of styles to battle enemies.  It has high interactive combat.  You will be allowed to pick up any weapon, shield or torch.  You will seek a magical suit of armor.  The armor is scattered across realms.  Has great special effects.   

I hope one of these will peek your interest and cause you hours of fun!