i have wide feet and its becoming a struggle to find comfy but still cute shoes. i dont want to wear old grandma ugly orthopedic shoes or something... im just looking for some cute casual flats and some boots as well. can anyone suggest any brands or webs

Sure no problem! i have this problem sometime myself. But i've found the answer, these are some great sites that will meet yours needs. http://www.shoes.com and http://www.daveswideshoes.com

I found the place for you!

http://www.shoes.com

I have the same problem!  One site I recommend is Zappos!  They have wide width is most styles, even extra wide width in others!  They have only top quality brand names, and unmatchable 24/7 customer service and support! They have free shipping and a 365 day return policy as well!

A cute pair of flats is the Lifestride Derry which sells for $48.99
specifics:

• Slip into something sensational with the Derry from LifeStride.
• Man-made upper retains shape and is easy to maintain.
• Allover contrast stitching enhances this already modern look.
• Padded footbed offers additional cushioning and comfort for extended wear.
• Man-made outsole offers stability and traction with every stride.
• 8.00 oz.

Another is the Fitzwell Dyan which sells for $69.00
specifics:

• Fitzwell weaves style and comfort into this everyday casual flat.
• Genuine leather upper.
• Pleated and knotted detail on the toe.
• Leather sock liner.
• Gel insole in the heel.
• Durable synthetic bottom.
• 1/2" heel.
• 5.00 oz.

They also have Gabriella Roche Boots selling for $69.95
specifics

• Ultra-chic pull-on boot.
• Manmade upper.
• Padding in the shaft for comfort against your calf.
• Rounded toe front.
• Durable and flexible outsole.
• 1/2" heel.
• 15.50" shaft height.
• 16.00" circumference.
• 11.00 oz.